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Bar Stars Karaoke Contest, March 28, 2013

Bar Stars Karaoke Contest, March 28, 2013

When I run into people these days in random places like the grocery store, I am asked some form of one of two questions:

1)  You’re still here?

2)  Are you still singing?

Here’s the scoop on my current continuing location.  First, I was trying to sell my house last summer.  That wasn’t happening, and I got impatient.  I decided to pull it from the market in December, and to rent it out at whatever point I am able to leave.

Since then, I’ve been applying for jobs in Cheyenne and Fort Collins when they present themselves, during the busiest time of year at my existing job in Great Falls.  Our major deadline for the year is on Monday, which, this year, happens to fall right *after* Easter.  That has nothing in particular to do with anything, it just manages to be somewhat inconvenient.

I have a few leads, and now that it’s a better time for my employer to be suddenly without me (well, there’s never a good time for that, but they’ve known for at least a year), I feel less bad about dashing out of the state.  I’m hoping to be out of here, for real, by the end of May.

The first three months of the year, especially March, can get a little overwhelming and emotional. Between unexpected emergencies at work and the dreariness of winter, Jordan being far away and a stagnating living situation, it’s been kind of a tough one.  Where I usually tend to be proactive and driven (ha), this spring has been a little more about survival than living.  It’s silly, because we all know how freakin’ good I’ve got it.  Still, I haven’t been my usual self, and while April tends to bring that back out of me in any given year, I’m looking more forward to it this year than I have in a long time.

But, you didn’t come here to read about all that.  You’re wondering what is going on with the Metallica fedora picture.  (You can’t even see the leopard print skinny jeans…)

So, to answer the second question…yes, I’m still singing.  Mostly karaoke.

I know, I know, there are a few (very talented) music school snobs in town who will tell you karaoke isn’t for real musicians.  I would say, it’s as real as you make it.  My voice is probably at its best when I sing karaoke 2-3 nights a week and practice new songs for it the rest of the time.   I don’t think it matters too much where you sing–if you love it, DO it!  At every opportunity.

I also sing every now and then with The Electric City Mafia, up at Rumors (which everyone still calls the Skyline).  They’ve been very kind to me and are always happy to let me up on stage any time I show up.  Fun guys, and a great band with a huge repertoire.  With a band is really *THE* way to perform–they work their butts off and it shows.  I work my elbows off, when I have time, and I’m not sick, or making excuses.  (That shows, too.)

So anyway, right now I’m putting my performance energy into a contest they’re having at the Beacon.  The last night of finals is coming up on Thursday, April 4.  I haven’t chosen my songs yet, but I’m hoping to by the end of the day.

This last week was rock week.  Each contestant (there are a whopping seven of us) had to sing a rock or pop song, and any other song of their choice.  I sang “Whiskey in the Jar” (the Metallica version) and “Dream On,” by Aerosmith.  Crowd-pleasers, both.  I have to say, I really get a charge out of it when people I don’t know come up to me and tell me how much they enjoyed my performance. That’s why I love contests.  If you show up at a regular karaoke night in a fedora with a mic stand, at best no one would care, and at worst, you’d get laughed out of the bar….and/or accosted by a drunk comedian who wants to make your solo a duet.

I know I’ve blogged about these contests before.  For me, they’re a chance to perform, and to hang out with my friends, at least the ones who like to sing.  I’m psyched because my BFF Erin has been doing the contest, too, and she has a real knack for song choice.

So, if you happen to be looking for something fun to do next Thursday–please, come out.  Crowd response is an important factor in this contest–it usually is.  I assume I’ll come up with something awesome that will make strangers give a damn, but Erin and I would still love to see you and have your support.  I’d hate to recycle something I’ve used earlier, but I’m a little nervous at how late in the game it is.  I’m fighting a sore throat and early cold symptoms, so in an effort not to be completely worthless vocally on Thursday, I have to keep quiet in my face for a day or two.  NOT easy.  It means I need to know my limitations in the song choice department without doing too much vocal testing.  So, no “Climb Ev’ry Mountain” for me.  (Sorry, SOM fans….)

In the meantime, writing has been back-burnered, since I had to take down my sweet writing setup for showing the house.  I still have a piano in the basement, but I don’t spend nearly the time hanging out down there as I would expect to, given that it’s the best room in the house for hanging out in.  Something about proximity to the kitchen.

And now,it’s time for breakfast.  I had bacon for dinner on Thursday night, and made a ton of extra. When I came home after midnight, I saw the leftovers, wrinkled my nose in disdain for Lent, and left them in the fridge.  Now it’s Saturday.  And I’m a-gonna bacon it up.

Happy Easter, everyone!  May you make some wonderful spring memories with your family this weekend to start out the summer of 2013.  <3

Deadlines, or Life Lines?

Deadlines are a girl’s best friend.

I find that without them, there isn’t really much sense of urgency to my work. Luckily my actual work provides plenty of a sense of urgency. The work I do for fun, which is the writing and the singing and the blogging, and also sewing, and quilting, and, you know, creative Jello-making….often find themselves in the back seat with accounting–or some other task–at the wheel.

Well, accounting remains at the wheel, (and it gets to because it pays the highest ticket price), but sitting on its lap blocking its view is a little thing known as a wedding. Coming up, we think, in October.

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I realize that I have failed to announce this on my blog. On September 29, Jordan proposed, gave me a HUGE beautiful ring, and it’s been wedding planning nirvana ever since. I’m happy to say I’ve found my gown–but the date isn’t official, the venue and Church aren’t booked, and there is plenty to do between now and then. Like the new-job-finding and the all-worldly-goods-relocating.

In the meantime, between scouring the internet for the perfect photographer and the most economical cake bakery, I’m working on some crazy fun material that I know you’re going to love. But without a deadline, like next Wednesday’s open mic (which used to work when I was hosting), or a recording start date for the next album, I am taking my sweet time. I’m psyched to see all the great things going on right now in the Great Falls art community, and I wish I had more time to participate. Right now, my creative energy is going into translating color samples from one bridesmaid gown designer to another. And honestly, I don’t mind. I am always writing, somewhere in the back of my mind. I’m not always trying to distinguish “raspberry” from “merlot.” (Or wondering why so many reds are named after delicious consumables.)

Deadlines are merciful. With them ends a period of time, often a stressful one, where much effort is made and focus is given to meeting them. The deadline passes, ending one project and perhaps beginning another, thrusting you forward into something new. I am looking forward to being married again.

AND, it’s my birthday! So I’m also looking forward to the second half of my twenties!

;-) Happy Wednesday, everybody.

Love you all!

-DJ

P.S. If you missed it, I put up a YouTube video of a song I wrote last summer. It’s called “That’s My Montana.” Just a little something that came from a very nostalgic place as I was first making my peace with leaving. I hope you all like it!

 

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Another One of the Good Ones

Ok. I feel like after all this, I’ve got some ‘splainin’ to do. In a couple of previous blog posts, I’ve alluded to the possibility that there may be more on my mind of late than music. And now, I’ve accosted you with…what?!? A LOVE song?!

Well, it’s a ridiculously giddy truth. I am in love.

I’m also in all the cheesy misspellings of love, including “loooooove,” “luv” and “lubb.” It would be rather embarrassing, I suppose, if I cared much about how silly it seemed. So all I ask is that you bear with me.

Because, really…just look at him. Can you blame me?

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About two years ago, I met this incredibly handsome military officer, and he took me on a stealth date. I laugh about it now, because the quickest way to freak me the hell out when I’m really, truly single, is to tell me you want to take me on a proper date. So, he didn’t. He just asked me on the spur of the moment to meet him for dinner. And he picked up the check. That was when I began to sense his intentions.

Roughly eighteen months later, Jordan worked like crazy at the Driven release party, selling CDs and t-shirts, generally charming our guests and being referred to, repeatedly, by announcer Michael Gilboe as “man candy.” The pictures above were taken by Erin K Photography that night.

While I talk about it like it is, this relationship isn’t new. It’s been a pretty awesome couple of years. It doesn’t matter what we’re doing, we enjoy each other’s company. And while we spend plenty of time with friends, and family when we can, it’s nice to feel like we’re “enough” when it’s just us, too. (Well, us and Pawn Stars…)

In the last few months, though, we’ve had to spend a fair amount of time apart, and given the nature of the military and its propensity for rearranging the location at which you work, we’ll be spending quite a bit more time apart. All with the goal, of course, of getting ourselves situated once again in the *same* location, upon some undiscovered eventuality which admittedly seems at times to be getting further away than closer.

Hey, does anybody want to buy a tremendously charming house and help me speed up the process?

My humble abode

The end of this summer is a little bittersweet. I spent the good hottest part of it renovating the bathrooms and painting the living room, but I quite like it now. I’ve always been fond of my house–and for eight years, it’s been my home. It has seen me through a divorce, a few interesting journeys through friendship, and a LOT of karaoke practice. (I’m weird like that, okay?!) A million memories have been made here. So, in some ways it’s hard to say goodbye. In other ways…I don’t know how much higher I’ll be able to count after that first million.

The cool thing about it all is that I get to embark upon a crazy new adventure, with a crazy awesome fella. I wouldn’t leave allll this for just anybody, after all. Right now, the distance is painful but in the end, I know it’ll all be worth it. I mean, how often do you see me write a love song? ;-)

So, I don’t know exactly when, but I’ll be moving, and looking for a new job, and headquartering danajoforseth.com out of a different state…probably a few different states, honestly…but I hope you’ll keep me in your hearts and on your radar. While I may periodically pause, I don’t plan to quit making music, EVER.

In the meantime, I want everybody to know, I’m in good hands. I can tell, Jordan is one of the good ones.

 

One of the Good Ones

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the next recording project, and what I would like it to look/sound/feel like. I don’t have a time line or a budget. But I think about it a lot. It’s one part of my life right now that I actually have some freedom to plan. I promise a blog post elaborating a bit more on that when I’m less distracted by the fact that I’m posting for a different reason.

This is a song that I’ve been kicking around for a year or so, but never had in any recorded form before. Lyrics are here: One of the Good Ones

I’d love to know what you think! Should this go on the next record?

 

Karaoke For the Cure


As you’re looking for fun things to do in Great Falls this week, consider coming to the Halftime Sports Bar on Wednesday night.

For the past several weeks, karaoke singers from all over the area have been competing for a chance to win a little bit of cash, and to raise funds for St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital. It’s called “Karaoke for the Cure,” and it’s starting here.

This Wednesday night, warm-ups start at 7 and the contest starts at 8. Twenty-five contestants will bring their best performances to the crowd, in hopes of raising the most money for the cause. There are two prize pools, each with their own criteria for winning. A panel of judges made up of sponsors, radio personalities, and guests will score the contestants on talent and presentation. The crowd chooses its own winners as well–by voting. Each vote costs $1 and you can vote as many times, and for as many people as you like. Contestants pleasing both the crowd and the judges could win prize money from both pools!

This contest is a wonderful time–the talent in this pool of contestants is unreal, and the crowd is incredibly supportive to match. So hit up the ATM, bring your $1s, $5s, and $50s to support your favorite singers, and more importantly, St. Jude’s. In a contest like this one, everyone is a winner, because we’re all supporting a great cause!

A great time is promised, as well as some extraordinary performances you will never see anywhere else. This is where the rubber meets the road, folks. It’s no ordinary karaoke night–it’s Karaoke for the Cure!

Want to know who’s singing? Your 25 finalists are:

Michelle Lockhar
Jeremy Hudson
Jolene Martinich
Matt Twedt
Tony Garza
Lisa Voss
Cindy Arnold
Larry Bryant
Mary Rose Sorenson
Austin Ross
Jacob Hudson
Elisha Foster
Stephanie Robbins
Preacher Moffit
Linda Kuka
Jeremi Higgins
Marty Lau
Ashleigh Bludworth
Crystal Staples
Kari Trainor
Dana Jo Forseth
Amanda Davidson
Louise Risby
Dawn Orr
John Hudson

Good luck to everyone and I’ll see you Wednesday night!  -<3 DJ

 

 

In July, it Snows Cotton

Don’t you just love summer?

I know, I’ve been starting posts lately talking about the weather. But for the first time in a long time (it seems) we are dealing with a real, honest-to-goodness SUMMER, something that is occasionally tough to come by in Montana.

And what a summer it’s turning into! Where I live, in Great Falls, we are surrounded by dozens of smaller rural communities, many of which have their own town festival of sorts on a different weekend from June through August. So many in fact that it’s hard to get to them all. And when you do, running into people you know is inevitable. The feeling of “home” follows you here, wherever you go.

I loved this about growing up in Montana. While Great Falls was a planet of its own in my youth, those of us from small towns, amid our rivalries and our own real-life Dawson’s Creek dramas, we stuck together. We were at every graduation in a 50-mile radius for all four years we were in high school, and at least the three years after. We went to each other’s proms, and we carpooled to the night shows at the fair. And while many of us have scattered across the country and even the world, there are very few people I would be surprised to run into at any one of these events, even all these (mumbles an undiscernable number) years later.

A couple of weekends ago, I was able to make it to a street dance in Fort Benton as well as an end-of-rodeo celebration in Augusta. A band called The Alleged played on the street outside the Grand Union Hotel, and a break-dancing circle broke out when they started in to “Billie Jean.” I ran into an old karaoke buddy (from my adult years) who always brings his dog out with him to “pick up chicks.” Some friends and I had a few drinks and sang karaoke into the wee hours of the morning, and then it was back to another week at work. This is what I love about summer in Montana–there’s always a good time to be had, anywhere you go, and wherever you end up, you know everybody. :-)

This summer, I have some serious work to do. I’m getting ready to put my house on the market, and packing up for a big move. But we’ll talk about that later. :-) In the meantime, I hope that whatever any of us may have going on, we can find the time to have some beers on a patio, barbecue some burgers, and sing a couple of songs at an open mic. Summer is fleeting, good times are bountiful, and this is why we work so hard for the rest of the year.

Hugs and High Fives,
-Dana Jo

Don’t you just love it when your gas bill starts going down?

And the sun starts coming out, the grass starts growing, the air starts to smell of clippings, charcoal smoke and steak, and your mind’s eye can’t help but imagine all the good times that await you over the coming months…ah, so do I.

Finally, it’s May.  Years like this one, we get a repreive from an already-mild winter.  We have warm weather before it’s even Memorial Day.  We mow for the first time before we even get our taxes filed–and it doesn’t even make us mad.  I love May.  With it comes the end of my winter and spring deadlines, and the first part of the calendar year when I can even begin to think about taking a vacation.  It sort of renews my hope for the future and my faith in human nature.

This year, with May comes a chance for you, the fans, to win some great prizes!

I’m on the hunt for new fans.   I have promised that once I reached 200 likes on my facebook fan page, I would draw 5 names and award those folks with cool prizes, like t-shirts, stickers, and more.  Well, we’ve reached that goal.  And the drawing is going to be either Thursday, May 10, or Friday, May 11.  But it’s not too late!  For every 20 additional fans OVER 200, I will add at LEAST one prize to the drawing pile.  If it goes really well, I could be drawing ten prizes.  Or twenty!  Or…you get the picture.  The drawing will be held live on my Facebook page, with updates for prizes drawn.

So, if you’re a facebook member, but not an official “fan,” there is a link to the right of this post that you can click to get into the drawing, if you do it soon.  If you ARE a fan, you’re already in the running!  I will get the prizes to you, either USPS or hand-delivery, as location and time allows.

In other news…well, I don’t have a lot I can report right now…but I will say I’ve been thinking a lot about the next project.  So many considerations–timing, funding, music selection…but I don’t want to rush it.  I’m hoping to do some more great writing between now and then, and giving you all something worth waiting for.  But boy, would I love to get back into the studio and get cracking on some of the newer music…like “One of the Good Ones” and “It’s Only Slander if it Isn’t True.”

I’d also like to perfect a mint limeade recipe.  Thank you, Bountiful Baskets!

Now, before I get any more link-happy, I want to thank you all and wish you the best of the rest of the week!  And may the odds be ever in your favor!  ;-)

 

 

Family Reunion Blog Feature

One of the highlights on the CD for many people (well, at least my relatives) is the song “In-Laws, Outlaws and Offspring.”  One day I was browsing around for family reunion blogs, and I found familyreunionhelper.com, which is a very comprehensive website about planning your family reunion, whatever type of group you have.  “Aunt Mo” runs the site, and offers lots of great ideas, tips, games and activities to implement at your family reunions, including theme packages for theme reunions.  It’s a really cool website!

She was also kind enough to feature the family reunion song from Driven.  She interviewed me and published the story here.  There are a few pictures and well-guarded stories from reunions past, and if you have a chance, it’s kind of a fun read.

But don’t worry, Ward relatives, I didn’t give away all the family secrets…

 

One Way to Cure the February Blahs….

It’s been a busy few weeks at work. It’s year-end at my job, which means a lot of extra financial reporting, schedule-building, and extreme journal entry-ing. I love what I do, but I have to admit, this time of year is stressful. At the end of the day, I pretty much go catatonic for a good hour just trying to sort my mind back out and get back into functioning-as-human mode. I know that every job has these times of the year, this is just ours…but that doesn’t make it any more fun.

So, today, I was fighting the “what-I-was-all-geared-up-to-work-on-isn’t-what-my-boss-wants-me-to-work-on” blues, and I remembered. This is the day they are putting me on the radio.

The program ended just a few minutes ago, on KGPR, 89.9 FM. It was a 30-minute show where they did a short interview and played a few songs from the Driven EP. I’ve never done a radio interview before, so it was a little different knowing people were going to hear my vocal inflections and my stammerings that Jake Sorich is always so kind to edit out when he puts my words in print for the Great Falls Tribune. I think I was mostly coherent, although I apologize for any unnecessary dead air. That Rick Tryon is like Barbara Walters–asking the tough questions like, “Is it your plan to make music your career?” I was careful to avoid saying “I wish! Can I start tomorrow?!” While I might like that type of work, I have to favor the steady paycheck of my day job. So it goes.

I have to admit, February is one of my least-favorite months of the year. Christmas is over (and so is my birthday), winter is hanging on, and it’s a long wait until we have time to take vacation days and feel some sunshine on anything other than our faces. This has been a mild winter, but working for the gas company, that sends to make everyone MORE tense–given that our profits come with the cold. For me, the release party is over and I have to return, if only for a little while, to reality and the things I must accomplish in order to get paid by “the man.” But I’m happy to have the split energy and skills to do both with my life, if only to varying degrees at different times of the year. The way I see it, I have to keep my spreadsheet skills sharp if I want my verses to flow coherently into every chorus I write.

And at the end of the day, I’ll bet none of the other accountants at my company heard their art on the radio this afternoon. :-)

Song Lyrics Available on the Website

If you haven’t seen it yet, I’d just like to direct your attention to the top of your screen–to the button that says “Lyrics.”  I just posted the words to a newer song I’ve been performing live, called “One of the Good Ones.”

I will be posting song lyrics here and there as I can get to them. In the meantime, feel free to read the ones I’ve already posted, which include a few from the Driven EP. Thanks for reading!

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